I am frustrated. I'm trying to plan a trip to New Orleans for Mardi Gras for our honeymoon, but I don't know how to go about it (at what point is it no longer a honeymoon and only a shared trip?). I've heard such conflicting stories that I'm not quite sure where to start. And I'm a little reluctant to hand the planning over to a travel agent - it would probably turn out that they know less than I do. The worst part is that I feel like I'm missing the deadline to get into someplace nice. But then again, I'm probably just going insane.