I'm worrying mostly about trying to find a builder for the new house. I have no idea how to ask questions or really even what questions to ask, so it feels like I'm flailing around in the dark. I wouldn't be especially worried except that our experience with the house painters was so bad (and this is so much more important) that now I'm afraid I'm going to pick the wrong person.
Luckily, this morning I have coffee. And I called my investment banker (I know, that makes me sound hoity-toity) and some of the folks he works with built their own houses. So maybe I'll get a recommendation that way. Thank goodness for the coffee.